When my sister blogged about the emptiness
she felt deep within her just a couple of days
back before I was home, I could literally feel
and sense her helplessness.

It's just like suddenly, everything seems to be
falling apart.
Everything just seemed so distant.
Suddenly, you're stuck in this avalanche of sadness
and negative thoughts.

I never imagined my sister, so strong emotionally
would have a time like this.
I guess it's true that everyone experiences loneliness
one time or another in their lives.

I am of course, not an exception.
Truth be told, I would be the one being
the emotionally wrecked female on earth.
Hah.

Sometimes, it is best to keep everything under control.
It would somehow seem better to leave things as it was,
be it shattered or regained,
lifeless or living.
Letting go seems to be the better of all the options.

It's pointless to keep thinking about the past,
it's meaningless to build a future that never
seem to exist in the first place.
Like I always believe,
things happen for a reason.
Reasons that neither anyone of us can answer.
Our paths have been decided,
but it was only through impulsive emotions
and explosive curiosity that leads individuals
to different sides of their destiny,
namely the prominent factor, FATE =)

Blaming others on the consequences that
evolved through the process could be one way
of self denial.
Denying all the facts that has been laid in front
of our eyes, but yet refusing to accept it.

In every single relationship,
it takes two hands to clap.
It's both parties fault in an event of
an argument, disagreement or even a quarrel.

Everyone of us should learn the basics of a relationship,
what it takes to maintain it.
It ain't as easy like counting 1,2,3.
Even phonics are much simpler than this non-existent
feeling that leads to an attachment between both parties.

It's much easier said than done.
The old saying is an understatement,
it's even more than what it portrays.

The risks involved in everything that we do,
brings us closer to the edge of our seats,
leaving us surprised most of the time and
yet hurting us bad at others.

Try to love yourself enough to move on to
greater heights.
Believe in yourself.
Don't get delusional and make yourself
the losing party or the biggest fool.

Bite the rope.
Walk away if it really hurts.
Love is beautiful,
it ain't painful.

Don't let the conception of love
be eroded with unwilling parties.
Find a love that truly belongs to you.

Love ain't selfish.
Love is forgiving.
Love is trusting.

If you feel that you're suffering in a relationship,
it's time to bid goodbye before you sink in
deeper to unknown depths of heartbreaks.

Save yourself earlier,
so that you will find the one earlier as well.

Kudos to my sister for the inspirational entry
that I've just shared.

To my lil sis:

It's alrite to like, have a crush, love.
Just don't deny your feelings,
even if someone doesn't appreciate you,
you still have me.

I will comfort and support you.
I'm here always to listen.
You are an angel.
Therefore, I believe you will find your
own cupid soon.

Love you.

* The past, it's time to let go.